The Third Child in the Marriage: Breaking the Parent-Child Dynamic

The Parent-Child dynamic in a marriage is often a silent saboteur of intimacy. When one partner consistently carries the "mental load" and adopts a managerial, Parental ego state to handle anxiety, it unconsciously invites the other partner to retreat into a resistant or passive Child ego state. This entanglement creates a "leaky" relationship vessel where...

Working with Core Beliefs of “Never Good Enough” through CBT and Psychodynamic Approaches

Core beliefs shape our perception of ourselves and influence our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. One common core belief many individuals struggle with is the feeling of “never good enough.” This belief can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and an insatiable need for external validation. In this […]

The Power of Shared Fantasy in Romantic Relationships

Rekindle intimacy in relationships by exploring shared fantasies and emotional connection.

Managing Anxiety at Work: When to Seek Immediate Help and When Psychotherapy Can Help

Introduction:Anxiety can be overwhelming, particularly when it strikes in the workplace. For many, this anxiety may escalate into obsessive thoughts and fear of losing control over their job performance. While psychotherapy is a valuable tool for managing long-term anxiety, it’s important to recognize when immediate medical attention is […]