When Defensiveness Takes Over: Why Some Men Struggle to Hear the People They Love

TRACK_TITLE 0:00 0:00 Listening to By Ari Sotiriou MA PGDip psychodynamic psychotherapist “Why does every difficult conversation end in an argument?” It is one of the questions we hear most often in both individual psychotherapy and couples therapy. A partner raises a concern. Perhaps she says she feels […]

The Relational Mirror

Why do the same arguments keep happening in your relationship? This article explores the hidden emotional patterns that trap couples in cycles of conflict and misunderstanding. Discover how greater self-awareness, reflective communication, and our interactive Relational Mirror worksheet can help you move from blame towards understanding, connection, and lasting change.

Unmasking Hidden Agendas in Couples Therapy: A Game-Inspired Approach

Relationships often involve hidden motivations, misinterpretations, and power struggles. Using an experiential role playing exercise the “Hidden Agendas” in couples therapy, it is possible to surface unconscious processes, projections, and power dynamics in the relationship.