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Hi, I'm Ari, the admin and author behind this blog. As a UK-registered therapist, I specialize in online couples therapy, helping individuals and partners work through their challenges and build stronger relationships. With a focus on empathy and practical strategies, I aim to provide readers with valuable insights and resources for personal and relational growth. When I'm not working with clients or writing, I’m continually learning and exploring new ways to support emotional well-being in the digital age.
Understanding Emotions: A Pathway to Healing
As a psychotherapist with years of experience, I often encounter clients who feel stuck in their emotional journeys. One common struggle is the desire to escape overwhelming feelings, such as anxiety, sadness, or frustration. These emotions can feel like waves crashing over us, making it tempting to seek […]
Finding Home: Freud, Migration, and the Search for Belonging
Introduction The inspiration for this blog post comes from a new exhibition at the Freud Museum in London, The Place I Am Not, featuring the work of Cypriot artist Maria Loizidou. This evocative exhibition, co-hosted with the Hellenic Centre, delves into themes of identity, belonging, and the immigrant […]
Aristotle and Freud: Civic Friendship, Truth, and the Bonds of Society
Introduction Human relationships form the fabric of society, and how these relationships are understood has been a focal point for thinkers throughout history. From ancient philosophers like Aristotle to modern theorists like Sigmund Freud, the question of how individuals relate to one another, and how they negotiate the […]
The Truth is Only for Those Who Deserve It: How Therapy Can Help Us Navigate Honesty in Relationships
Have you ever felt like the truth was too much for someone to handle? Or maybe, on the flip side, you’ve suspected that someone wasn’t being completely honest with you because they didn’t think you were “ready” to hear it? This idea—that truth is something to be earned […]
Hope and Fear: The Emotional Traps in Relationships with Narcissists
Introduction Being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. In the beginning, they are often charming and attentive, making their partner feel like they’ve found someone special. However, as time passes, the dynamic becomes emotionally draining and, in many cases, damaging. If you’re in this type […]
The Unconscious Mind in Visual Perception: What Ambiguous Images Reveal About Ourselves
Imagine an image of a large black raven perched on top of a carefully balanced stack of stones. The raven gazes off to the side, its beak slightly open, while in front of it a green plant with a blooming pink flower stands in contrast. Behind them, the […]
Facebook vs Instagram: A Psychological Exploration Through Object Relations Theory and Attachment Styles
In the realm of social media, few platforms have shaped how we connect and communicate more profoundly than Facebook and Instagram. Both now owned by Meta (formerly Facebook, Inc.), these platforms offer distinct experiences, attracting different types of users. To understand why someone might favour one platform over […]
Kintsugi: Embracing Imperfections and Healing Through Therapy
In a world that often demands perfection, it’s refreshing to encounter the ancient Japanese art of Kintsugi, a practice that celebrates flaws rather than concealing them. Kintsugi, meaning “golden joinery,” is the art of repairing broken pottery using lacquer mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. Instead of […]
Working with Narcissistic and Grandiose Clients in Psychoanalytic Therapy
In my practice at the Online Therapy Clinic, I’ve often worked with individuals who display narcissistic or grandiose traits. These clients can present unique challenges, but the therapeutic process can also be deeply rewarding. Over time, I’ve come to understand that beneath their often intimidating exterior lies a […]
The Psychology Behind Investing: Why Letting Go of Familiar Investments Can Be So Hard
Investing isn’t just a numbers game; it’s deeply tied to our psychology. Whether you’re contemplating investing in something new or struggling to let go of an investment you’ve held for years, understanding the underlying psychological factors can offer valuable insights. As therapists who specialise in both Cognitive Behavioural […]