“Flatmate Syndrome” describes the emotional and physical disconnection that can occur in relationships when partners start living more like housemates than lovers. This blog explores the phenomenon through a psychoanalytic lens, using object relations theory and Winnicott’s concept of the “good enough mother” to uncover deeper dynamics. Emotional withdrawal, fading intimacy, and parallel lives often...

In the therapeutic space, we sometimes encounter individuals who describe intense physical or spiritual experiences that can be challenging to interpret. These experiences may reside at the boundary between a meaningful spiritual journey and potential psychosis, presenting complex questions about safeguarding and clinical responsibility. In one recent case, […]

A psychoanalytical exploration of Kafka’s The Metamorphosis, examining how Gregor Samsa’s transformation into an insect symbolizes the collapse of identity, the struggle with societal expectations, and the deep alienation of the human psyche.

Excerpt: When a narcissistic psychopath partners with an autistic megalomaniac, their initial shared ambition quickly gives way to a clash of egos and control. This toxic alliance, driven by grandiosity and manipulation, ultimately unravels, leaving both parties grappling with the fallout.

Explore the tale of two wolves within us all, and discover how psychodynamic therapy helps bring balance and self-acceptance to our inner conflicts.

Mate poaching, the act of pursuing someone already in a relationship, reveals deep-seated emotional patterns and unresolved conflicts. From a psychoanalytic perspective, this phenomenon often reflects our unconscious desires and fears, prompting us to seek validation in ways that can harm our relationships. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for fostering healthier connections and personal growth.

The myth of Helen of Troy highlights the timeless struggles of desire and isolation. As we navigate the digital landscape, reflecting on these ancient themes through a psychoanalytic lens can help us foster genuine connections amidst curated identities and superficial interactions.

In the Cindy Sherman at Cycladic: Early Works exhibition, the artist challenges conventional notions of femininity and identity through her provocative self-portraits. This blog post explores how societal expectations shape our self-concept, inviting readers to reflect on the impact of external influences on their identities.

The words we use with our children have a profound and often underestimated impact. A subtle, yet powerful observation is this: “When we criticise our children, we don’t risk them stopping loving us; we risk them stopping loving themselves.” This phrase encapsulates a crucial element of emotional development. […]

Rekindle intimacy in relationships by exploring shared fantasies and emotional connection.