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Hi, I'm Ari, the admin and author behind this blog. As a UK-registered therapist, I specialize in online couples therapy, helping individuals and partners work through their challenges and build stronger relationships. With a focus on empathy and practical strategies, I aim to provide readers with valuable insights and resources for personal and relational growth. When I'm not working with clients or writing, I’m continually learning and exploring new ways to support emotional well-being in the digital age.
The Metamorphosis: A Psychoanalytical Perspective on Alienation, Identity, and the Self
A psychoanalytical exploration of Kafka’s The Metamorphosis, examining how Gregor Samsa’s transformation into an insect symbolizes the collapse of identity, the struggle with societal expectations, and the deep alienation of the human psyche.
The Toxic Tango: When a Narcissistic Psychopath Meets an Autistic Megalomaniac
Excerpt: When a narcissistic psychopath partners with an autistic megalomaniac, their initial shared ambition quickly gives way to a clash of egos and control. This toxic alliance, driven by grandiosity and manipulation, ultimately unravels, leaving both parties grappling with the fallout.
The Tale of Two Wolves: Understanding Our Inner Conflict Through Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
Explore the tale of two wolves within us all, and discover how psychodynamic therapy helps bring balance and self-acceptance to our inner conflicts.
The Psychology of Mate Poaching: A Psychoanalytic Perspective Why Are We Drawn to the Unavailable?
Mate poaching, the act of pursuing someone already in a relationship, reveals deep-seated emotional patterns and unresolved conflicts. From a psychoanalytic perspective, this phenomenon often reflects our unconscious desires and fears, prompting us to seek validation in ways that can harm our relationships. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for fostering healthier connections and personal growth.
From Myth to Screen: Exploring Desire, Identity, and Connection in the Digital Age
The myth of Helen of Troy highlights the timeless struggles of desire and isolation. As we navigate the digital landscape, reflecting on these ancient themes through a psychoanalytic lens can help us foster genuine connections amidst curated identities and superficial interactions.
Femininity, Identity, Image: Reflections on the Art of Cindy Sherman
In the Cindy Sherman at Cycladic: Early Works exhibition, the artist challenges conventional notions of femininity and identity through her provocative self-portraits. This blog post explores how societal expectations shape our self-concept, inviting readers to reflect on the impact of external influences on their identities.
Embracing Loss and Mortality in Psychodynamic Therapy: Exploring Death through Celebrations and Psychoanalytic Theory
Exploring how psychodynamic therapy helps us face mortality, process grief, and find meaning in life’s inevitable endings.
The Impact of Parental Criticism on a Child’s Self-Esteem: A Psychoanalytic Perspective
The words we use with our children have a profound and often underestimated impact. A subtle, yet powerful observation is this: “When we criticise our children, we don’t risk them stopping loving us; we risk them stopping loving themselves.” This phrase encapsulates a crucial element of emotional development. […]
Erysichthon’s Hunger: The Myth of Emptiness and its Echo in Psychodynamic Theory
In Greek mythology, few stories resonate as powerfully with the theme of emptiness as the myth of Erysichthon. Erysichthon, a Thracian king, brazenly cut down a sacred tree belonging to Demeter, the goddess of harvest and fertility. In her wrath, Demeter cursed him with insatiable hunger, a torment […]
The Self on Social Media: A Psychodynamic Perspective on the True and False Self
In today’s digital world, the allure of social media is hard to resist. Platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok offer seemingly endless opportunities for self-expression, connection, and validation. Yet, beneath the surface, they can also amplify feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, and disappointment. Donald Winnicott’s theory of the “true […]