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Hi, I'm Ari, the admin and author behind this blog. As a UK-registered therapist, I specialize in online couples therapy, helping individuals and partners work through their challenges and build stronger relationships. With a focus on empathy and practical strategies, I aim to provide readers with valuable insights and resources for personal and relational growth. When I'm not working with clients or writing, I’m continually learning and exploring new ways to support emotional well-being in the digital age.
Navigating Cultural Complexities in Couples Therapy: A Case Study
In the bustling city of London, amid the unprecedented circumstances of the COVID lockdown, Rachel and Yannis—a successful IT engineer and a Greek trainee lawyer—found themselves drawn together. Their romance, sparked during a chance encounter in a local park, quickly deepened, leading Yannis to move into Rachel’s sophisticated flat. Yet beneath the surface, their relationship...
Understanding Breaks in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: Unconscious Dynamics and Their Impacts
Breaks in psychodynamic psychotherapy, whether due to the therapist's absence or the client's, can stir profound unconscious dynamics within the therapeutic relationship. The consistent structure of weekly sessions creates a safe environment for clients to explore their inner world, but any disruption can evoke complex emotional responses rooted in early attachment experiences. When a therapist...
When Clients Don’t Show Up: Understanding No-Shows in Online Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
In online psychodynamic psychotherapy, missed sessions can carry significant psychological meaning beyond mere logistical challenges. While technical issues or scheduling conflicts might explain some absences, others may reveal deeper unconscious processes at play. For instance, a client might unknowingly resist the therapy's emotional intensity by "forgetting" to log in, or they might be testing the...
The Rise of Misogyny: A Psychological Exploration of Andrew Tate
The Rise of Misogyny: A Psychological Exploration of Andrew Tate In recent years, the internet has seen a troubling surge in misogynistic attitudes, driven in part by influential figures like Andrew Tate. A former kickboxing champion turned social media influencer, Tate has become infamous for his controversial views on women. His recent arrest for human...
The Importance of Boundaries in Therapy: A Case Study
In the realm of psychotherapy, establishing and maintaining appropriate boundaries is crucial for both the therapist and the patient. Boundaries help create a safe and structured environment where therapeutic work can flourish. However, when these boundaries are blurred or crossed, it can lead to significant risks and complications. This blog post explores the importance of...
Navigating Payment Issues in Online Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: Uncovering Unconscious Dynamics
In online psychodynamic psychotherapy, issues with clients consistently delaying payment or requiring reminders can reveal deep unconscious dynamics within the therapeutic relationship. Such behaviours may reflect underlying conflicts, including unconscious resentment, transference issues, or fears of dependency and abandonment. By exploring these dynamics through a psychoanalytic lens, therapists can better understand the client's resistance and...
Navigating the Skies Within: A Journey Through Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
A Safe Space for Exploration In our initial consultation, one of the most significant steps was establishing a safe and supportive space where she could begin to explore her feelings without judgment. Working in a high-pressure environment like AIRBUS, where precision and control are paramount, she had developed a tendency to suppress her emotions—something many...
What Couples Should Expect from Their Online Couples Therapist: The Initial Experience
Embarking on couples therapy is a significant step for any relationship, and doing so in an online setting introduces its own unique dynamics. Understanding what to expect from the process and how your online therapist will facilitate your sessions can help couples feel more prepared and comfortable as […]
The Start of Online Psychodynamic Therapy: Understanding Your Mind
Online therapy has become a game-changer in mental health, making support more accessible to people everywhere. Among the different approaches to therapy, psychodynamic therapy stands out because it helps you understand the unconscious thoughts and feelings that shape your life. If you’re new to online therapy, the first […]
The Importance of a Good Ending in Online Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
In the journey of psychodynamic psychotherapy, the ending is as important as the beginning. For many, the conclusion of therapy is a time of mixed emotions—relief, achievement, sadness, and even a sense of loss. It’s a significant part of the therapeutic process, and when handled properly, it helps […]