Why do clients sometimes lie in therapy? In this post, I share an anonymized case that highlights the complexities of trust and honesty at the start of the therapeutic journey, exploring why clients might misrepresent themselves and how therapists can respond with empathy and understanding.

Excerpt: When a narcissistic psychopath partners with an autistic megalomaniac, their initial shared ambition quickly gives way to a clash of egos and control. This toxic alliance, driven by grandiosity and manipulation, ultimately unravels, leaving both parties grappling with the fallout.

Mate poaching, the act of pursuing someone already in a relationship, reveals deep-seated emotional patterns and unresolved conflicts. From a psychoanalytic perspective, this phenomenon often reflects our unconscious desires and fears, prompting us to seek validation in ways that can harm our relationships. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for fostering healthier connections and personal growth.

The passing of Mimis Plessas, a beloved Greek composer, evokes deep emotional reflection, revealing the profound connection between art, memory, and personal grief.

Have you ever felt like the truth was too much for someone to handle? Or maybe, on the flip side, you’ve suspected that someone wasn’t being completely honest with you because they didn’t think you were “ready” to hear it? This idea—that truth is something to be earned […]

Introduction Being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. In the beginning, they are often charming and attentive, making their partner feel like they’ve found someone special. However, as time passes, the dynamic becomes emotionally draining and, in many cases, damaging. If you’re in this type […]

As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, I was trained to maintain strict therapeutic boundaries, ensuring that no communication with clients occurred outside of scheduled sessions. In the traditional in-person setting, the consulting room creates a contained and secure environment where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings. At that time, […]

If you spend any time on social media, the news, or even chatting with neighbours, it’s hard to ignore one thing: anger is everywhere. We live in a time where frustration and rage define much of our public and private lives. Whether it’s social media outbursts or the […]

Starting online therapy can be a transformative experience, but it requires thoughtful consideration of a few practical factors. Here’s a breakdown of what new clients should know. Technical Setup Clients must ensure they have a stable internet connection to avoid interruptions. Using a laptop or smartphone with a functioning camera and microphone is essential, though...