In my practice at the Online Therapy Clinic, I’ve often worked with individuals who display narcissistic or grandiose traits. These clients can present unique challenges, but the therapeutic process can also be deeply rewarding. Over time, I’ve come to understand that beneath their often intimidating exterior lies a […]

The British psychoanalytic tradition, deeply influenced by figures such as Melanie Klein and Donald Winnicott, places a strong emphasis on object relations theory. This approach explores how early interactions with caregivers shape an individual's emotional and psychological development. Klein introduced concepts like the paranoid-schizoid and depressive positions, which focus on the internalisation of relationships, while...

British and French psychoanalysis offer distinct perspectives: British psychoanalysis, shaped by Klein and Winnicott, emphasises object relations and early development, while French psychoanalysis, influenced by Lacan, focuses on the symbolic order and language’s impact on identity. As a trilingual psychodynamic psychotherapist, I’ve found that switching languages in therapy reveals unique insights, blending these traditions to...

Introduction Psychoanalysis, as a theoretical framework and clinical practice, offers a deep understanding of human psychology, particularly the unconscious mind’s influence on thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Developed by Sigmund Freud in the late 19th century, it focuses on uncovering unconscious conflicts through techniques like free association and dream […]

Ghosting, while seemingly a modern phenomenon, taps into deep-rooted psychological dynamics that psychoanalytic theory helps illuminate. When someone is ghosted, it triggers primal fears of abandonment and rejection, often stemming from early childhood experiences. According to Freud, these unresolved conflicts resurface in adulthood, leading to intense feelings of self-blame and inadequacy. The lack of closure...

The Rise of Misogyny: A Psychological Exploration of Andrew Tate In recent years, the internet has seen a troubling surge in misogynistic attitudes, driven in part by influential figures like Andrew Tate. A former kickboxing champion turned social media influencer, Tate has become infamous for his controversial views on women. His recent arrest for human...

Embarking on couples therapy is a significant step for any relationship, and doing so in an online setting introduces its own unique dynamics. Understanding what to expect from the process and how your online therapist will facilitate your sessions can help couples feel more prepared and comfortable as […]

Online therapy has become a game-changer in mental health, making support more accessible to people everywhere. Among the different approaches to therapy, psychodynamic therapy stands out because it helps you understand the unconscious thoughts and feelings that shape your life. If you’re new to online therapy, the first […]

In the journey of psychodynamic psychotherapy, the ending is as important as the beginning. For many, the conclusion of therapy is a time of mixed emotions—relief, achievement, sadness, and even a sense of loss. It’s a significant part of the therapeutic process, and when handled properly, it helps […]

When couples come to therapy with concerns about finances, it’s often tempting to focus solely on the numbers. Yet, as any seasoned therapist knows, money is rarely just about money. In many cases, financial disagreements are a proxy for deeper, underlying issues within the relationship. This can be […]