Online therapy has become a game-changer in mental health, making support more accessible to people everywhere. Among the different approaches to therapy, psychodynamic therapy stands out because it helps you understand the unconscious thoughts and feelings that shape your life. If you’re new to online therapy, the first few sessions are an important part of starting this journey, often leading to significant personal change.
What Is Psychodynamic Therapy?
Psychodynamic therapy is based on the ideas of Sigmund Freud and focuses on understanding how your unconscious mind and past experiences—especially from childhood—affect how you feel and behave today. Online therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions for this approach, offering a safe space for you to explore your deepest thoughts and emotions.
In the first three to four sessions, you and I will work together to explore your psychological landscape. This means we’ll try to identify patterns, hidden conflicts, and emotional issues that might be affecting your life.
The First Few Sessions: Setting the Stage
The initial sessions in online psychodynamic therapy are all about building a solid foundation for the work ahead. These sessions are important for several reasons:
Trust is key in psychodynamic therapy. I’ll create a non-judgmental, supportive environment where you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings. This is especially important online, where the lack of physical presence might make you feel more exposed.
A big part of psychodynamic therapy involves understanding your past, especially early relationships and important life events. During our first sessions, I’ll ask questions to help uncover these past influences, which may be causing current issues.
As you talk about your experiences, I’ll begin to notice recurring patterns or themes. These could be repeated behaviours, unresolved conflicts, or certain emotional reactions. Identifying these patterns is a key part of our work together, as it helps you understand what’s driving your behaviour.
You might start therapy with clear goals, or you might be unsure of what you want to achieve. The initial sessions are a chance to clarify these goals and help you see how therapy can help. As we continue, these goals might change as you gain deeper understanding.
Moving Forward: From Understanding to Change
After the first few sessions, you and I will have a clearer understanding of your inner world. With this foundation, I can help you explore deeper issues, make connections between your past and present, and work through unresolved conflicts.
As therapy progresses, you’ll often gain new insights into your behaviour, relationships, and emotions. These insights can lead to positive changes, such as better self-awareness, healthier relationships, and greater emotional strength.
Online psychodynamic therapy, like traditional therapy, is a journey of self-discovery. The convenience of online sessions makes this journey accessible to more people, allowing you to benefit from the powerful changes therapy can bring.
In summary, the beginning of online psychodynamic therapy is a crucial time that sets the stage for the rest of our work together. By carefully exploring your psychological landscape, I can help you uncover the unconscious forces at play, leading you on a path of healing and growth. Whether you come with specific goals or just a desire for change, these first sessions provide the clarity and direction needed to make the most of online therapy.
By Ari Sotiriou M.A. psychodynamic psychotherapist co-founder Online Therapy Clinic