Recently, I came across an image that has been circulating online. It’s a comic-style drawing of a woman lying face-down on her bed, with the thought: “I just want someone to love and accept me for who I pretend to be on the internet.” It’s intended as humour, […]

The COVID-19 pandemic changed how we live, work, and connect with those closest to us. I saw firsthand how these changes impacted couples, as the lockdowns created an environment that tested many relationships in new and unexpected ways. During the pandemic, online therapy quickly became a lifeline for […]

1. Introduction to the Case S, a 40-year-old graphic designer living in London, has faced numerous emotional and psychological challenges stemming from her early life experiences. Originally from Brazil, S lost her father at the age of 7 and was subsequently raised by her single mother along with […]

Starting online therapy can be a transformative experience, but it requires thoughtful consideration of a few practical factors. Here’s a breakdown of what new clients should know. Technical Setup Clients must ensure they have a stable internet connection to avoid interruptions. Using a laptop or smartphone with a functioning camera and microphone is essential, though...

The Power of a Good Ending: How Couples Therapy Can Facilitate a Healthy Separation In the realm of relationships, a breakup can often feel like a complex, emotional labyrinth. While many seek couples therapy to salvage a faltering relationship, it's equally important to understand that therapy can play a vital role in guiding a couple...

In the bustling city of London, amid the unprecedented circumstances of the COVID lockdown, Rachel and Yannis—a successful IT engineer and a Greek trainee lawyer—found themselves drawn together. Their romance, sparked during a chance encounter in a local park, quickly deepened, leading Yannis to move into Rachel’s sophisticated flat. Yet beneath the surface, their relationship...

Breaks in psychodynamic psychotherapy, whether due to the therapist's absence or the client's, can stir profound unconscious dynamics within the therapeutic relationship. The consistent structure of weekly sessions creates a safe environment for clients to explore their inner world, but any disruption can evoke complex emotional responses rooted in early attachment experiences. When a therapist...

In online psychodynamic psychotherapy, missed sessions can carry significant psychological meaning beyond mere logistical challenges. While technical issues or scheduling conflicts might explain some absences, others may reveal deeper unconscious processes at play. For instance, a client might unknowingly resist the therapy's emotional intensity by "forgetting" to log in, or they might be testing the...

The Rise of Misogyny: A Psychological Exploration of Andrew Tate In recent years, the internet has seen a troubling surge in misogynistic attitudes, driven in part by influential figures like Andrew Tate. A former kickboxing champion turned social media influencer, Tate has become infamous for his controversial views on women. His recent arrest for human...

In the realm of psychotherapy, establishing and maintaining appropriate boundaries is crucial for both the therapist and the patient. Boundaries help create a safe and structured environment where therapeutic work can flourish. However, when these boundaries are blurred or crossed, it can lead to significant risks and complications. This blog post explores the importance of...